Don't do it! You can give your opinion, but don't try to change anything because the truth is, people generally do not change. Patterns are set from childhood and people are not raised in the say way, with the same values or morals, or with the same priorities. Something what bothers you about her man might not bother her at all.

People, men and women alike, only change when they are truly interested in personal growth or are affected by something so deeply that making an adjustment becomes a necessity. They finally get so tired of something in their life that they work to resolve that problem. Seldom will a person make any changes just because you push them to. In fact, people in need of altering their life in some way are generally much more resistant to being pushed by outside forces or individuals.

Some men cheat compulsively. Although they know that infidelity could wreck the lives and relationships, they do it anyway. If you've got a cheater like on your hands, the best thing to do is let him go. A compulsive cheater needs medical help to overcome his problem. This is something you can't provide, so when you find yourself faced with type of cheater, do yourself a favor and leave the relationship. Some men, like some women, thrive on chaos. There are some men who thrive on tempting fate.

Prodding your girl to make changes in her relationship only creates stressful pressure for both, leading to negative feelings and a rift in your relationship. It will also generally prolong their ability to make a change, even when it would lead to personal growth, an improved life or environment or more successful relationships. The next time you want to meddle in someone else's love life, back off and repeat the prayer below: God, put your arm around my shoulder and your hand across my mouth